It is a bright, sunny Thursday
afternoon and we’re meeting up with Nokuphumla ‘Ma Phumla’ Pakamile, mother,
wife, guardian, teacher, student, gardener, singer, and dancer. It is after school, and Phumla is down in her
garden behind the classroom block picking iMifino, an indigenous and edible
‘weed’, which she will add to the supper she prepares at home tonight. She is accompanied by Gloria Kumalo, a fellow
teacher, and they are talking about how the children have been progressing with
their navigational skills on the brand new computers that have just been
donated to their school. They laugh as
they refer to how both their students and their own children are growing up as
‘Digital Natives’ in a world of technology, with its sleek hyper-speed
cell-phone and internet communications, and how very differently their own and
older generations of ‘Digital Immigrants’ are experiencing the world.
For those of you who have met and worked with Phumla, you need no introduction. We are talking to Ma Phumla today
because we think that personalities such as hers deserve more attention. We are talking about people who are sensitive
to the needs of others, who have just a human-full of compassion but are able
to stretch it as far as they need to because they have found within themselves
the will and the self-love to empower this natural urge, and that this is what
truly makes a difference in our world.
Phumla adding mulch to the plants in her garden, with Gloria behind her, and the buildings of Chintsa East Primary School in the background |
Phumla started working at Chintsa
East Primary School in 1998 (the original school was established in1972, and
the new and existing building went up in 1996).
Before that she was teaching at an informal school that was housed in a
shack. It was during this time, round
about 2010, that she made the decision to start doing short Early Childhood
Development (ECD) courses. In the same year
she started studying her National Professional Diploma in Education (NPDE),
which she manages to work on each Saturday through the University of Fort Hare,
East London campus. She will complete
the diploma this year. While she studies
she is teaching at Chintsa East Primary as a Grade R Practitioner. On completion of her studies she wants to
become a full-time teacher.
She started learning about Permaculture in 2003, joining up her
school garden with others in the surrounding area to form a cluster of
functional, learning environments in which to further the aims of permacultural
principles. She shows us the soil in her
garden, saying “This beautiful earth was once a mixture of clay mixed with weak
sand. It was very unforgiving. We have worked hard in the garden to
rehabilitate the soil.” In 2008 she did
a one-year sustainable living course in East London, graduating at Rhodes
university, and gives full credit to Laura Conde (of WESSA) for introducing her
to the course: “She put me closer to nature!”
She is an ambassador for eco-schools (http://wessa.org.za/what-we-do/eco-schools.htm
) and keeps the garden we are standing
in, as well as a garden just a hundred meters away, known as the ‘Biogas’
garden, because it is fed by water that runs out of the BIOGAS system located
on the west side of the grounds, off the school’s toilet block (this system is
also designed to feed the school’s kitchens, where the ovens are fired up by
the methane gas by-product).
But all of this is only the
‘professional’ side of Phumla. She has
been married for 20 years and has 5 children, and this is the beginning of her
colourful life story. Her mornings are
taken up by her teaching, but her afternoons are filled, not only with her
studies, but with looking after her own children, as well as the children who
can not go home directly after school because there is no one at home for them
to be or play with: Phumla has also opened up her home to a number of children
both from within her own extended family and without, who have either a very
disruptive or dysfunctional home situation, or who, due to some other
unforeseen circumstances, simply have no home at all. So she has quite a large home now, and her
charge is to cook for all these mouths as well as to see to all their
individual needs, as a mother can only do.
Her home has now come to be known as a ‘safe house’ for these children,
but Phumla says, “I love them and they love me but it is not easy as we live
right next door to a shebeen. It is very
noisy, very destructive.”
In the Biogas garden, Phumla and Gloria work as they talk to Kate & Shaun |
And her children are doing well! Her youngest, Awonke (9), is in Grade 3 at
the new African Angels Independent School, a bright spark of a boy who loves
reading and is already full of self-confidence and an eagerness to engage with
others and with his world; Neziswa (14), is in Grade 9 at Bylett’s School, is a
flyhalf on the local girls’ rugby team, and until last year she was the only
girl on the Unstressed Surf School program; then there is Sandile (16), who
also plays rugby at school, and soccer with the local team too. He is also a promising surfer and a student
with the Unstressed Surf School, and he has recently started doing
weightlifting too; and lastly there is Tina (19), an I.T. student at CTI. Tina is the adventurous one: she’s the #10 on
the girls’ rugby team (the same team as her sister) and has won numerous awards
for eco-challenges. She is also very
musical, like her mother, and she wants to get into sports science or sports
management. Phumla’s eldest son,
Sthembiso (29) lives around the bay and works in Chintsa Bay Restaurant.
So Phumla has her hands full, what
with teaching and being a mother to all these outgoing young people! She tells us, “If I get some time to myself I
like to read a biography, or some Xhosa stories, and I also keep some Mills
& Boon books around for an easy read.”
But the rest of the time she is directly involved in her community,
serving as both a councilling ear to the many issues and grievances of her
village as well as on the committee of Friends of Chintsa. She
runs the weekly Garden Club held at the school’s ‘Biogas garden’, helps to
manage the Surf School on weekends, and she is also partly involved in the
girls’s rugby team. She also does Zumba
once a week. How does she do it all?
She says it all has to do with
responsibility, and also that the children love her so much. When we asked her what her biggest challenges
are, and what her vision is for herself, her family, her school and her
community, she replied “One of the issues that concerns me is the lack of
appreciation from some of the members of the community for property and
projects that find their way into their village. That, and a lack of funds.” She wants to see her village become a place
for responsible citizens, and her school growing with more effective
leadership, teachers, and learners. “I
can definitely do with more teachers, and more buildings to expand the school,”
she says.
WHERE AM I FROM? A poem by Phumla
I am from Nonqaba Tubby Pati, a Xhosa girl
from Macleantown village
I from waking up early, go to the veld
fetch iNzinziniba herb to make tea
for my brothers and sisters,
I am from milking the goats and making tea
in the morning
I from making tea for my aunties and uncles
before going to school in the
morning.
I am from dolls made from mealie-cob and
old materials,
I am from the doll’s house made of mud and
stones,
I am from a village, houses made of mud,
wood and thatched roofs,
I am from a village without electricity,
but the moon and the stars are lights.
I am from mealie-fields, planting, weeding
with a hoe and harvest.
I am from a traditional family wearing
traditional clothes I am from a traditional family wearing traditional clothes,
I am from tradition, women wear long
traditional dresses, smear
their bodies with yellow or red clay,
I am from going and collecting cows and
goats from the veld every evening
I am feeding the chickens, pigs and dogs
every day.
I am from eating cooked mealies, samp and
beans, African salad, and amarhewu
I am from eating traditional imifino picked
from the garden
I am from always welcoming the traveler and
giving him something to eat and water
I am from listening to the elders when
talking to me,
I am from respecting people older than me
and not call them
by their names rather call them ‘bhuti,
sisi, mama , or tata’,
I am from the family values where you greet
everyone you
meet on the road even if you don’t know who
she/he is.
I am from respecting God, not calling him
by his name but rather calling him Jehova
I am from collecting firewood and water
from the dam
I am from ‘you are not allowed to choose
your own husband—your elders will choose for you.’
I am from breaking that law and choosing my
own husband.
I am from growing up without my dad and not
even knowing him.
I am from growing up without staying with
my mom but with my aunties and uncles.
I am from going to school in a far away
village, barefoot sometimes
I am from a family believing in ancestral
spirits, from dancing and singing for these spirits
I am from the slaughtering of the goats,
sheep and cows in respect for the dead.
I am from Xhosa beer, called umqombothi,
drank only on special occasions.
I am part of my family and ancestors and they
are also part of me.
I am Nokuphumla
Pakamile
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Her message to all of you: “Stand up
for your community. Never give up. Keep up the good work!” And to children she has this to say: “Focus
on your studies at school today so that you can be a responsible citizen tomorrow!” How often do we meet people, indeed women, of
this calibre? Ma Phumla, we salute you!
For more on Phumla's incredible life journey please read this blog